FemDom Confessions with Lady Zarita
My Mistress' Pet--or What Being a Sissy is (for me)
the comments below are from tasha darkthorn, but are the
property of Lady Zarita Shan &/or The Dominion Femdom
for use in any fashion whatsoever, i hereby relinquish any
and all rights to this content 2-17-2011.
A loving and wise Mistress once directed me to disclose
why i labelled myself a a "sissy" and enjoyed being called
that. This is in Her honor, with devotion and love and
hopefully much better organization and flow than at the
time of the original discussion. Any errors are mine alone;
this is purely descriptive and subjective, not intended as
proscription or definitional for anyone but myself. Males,
if you want to question, discuss or share, wonderful and
welcome will you be; if you want to argue, "let me check
my calendar and get back to you with an appointment...."
:) Ladies, as ever, i am all ears...
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A sissy is a male who respects and loves Women,
worshipping the concepts of femininity and wholeness.
Everything womanly or "girly" is acceptable and attempted
to be understood. Every individual female is loved and
respected. It is an appreciation of the unique joys,
sorrows, passions, pleasures, and pains associated with
being an adult woman in this world. By definition, a sissy
is not thinking of or aroused in any fashion by young girls,
but begins with a female who has menstruated for at least
five years, a seasoned woman with experience. The
concept of being a sissy does not apply to the unique and
brave world of transgenders, humans whose souls and
bodies are not matched peacefully. A sissy is not
automatically a BITCH, either in the common usage or in
the "Beautiful Intelligent Temptress Creating Hardons"
version. Being called a "sissy bitch" isn't confusing, that
is a term of affection and play. Sissies also gladly do as
they are told, are open to guidance from Women in their
lives. The more compliant the sissy is, the more authentic
in his devotion, then the more at peace he can likely be
inside himself and with the Woman or Women from whom
he is receiving education, advice, and direction.
Being a sissy also requires intense desires to be
penetrated (by a variety of methods in various openings)
by a female or female controlled process. Mistress wants
Her boi's bottom, relishes the giving and taking of an ass
because She can be aroused by the "turning the tables"
on a male sexually. She can let him experience
penetration and other aspects of the female sexual
experience. She may permit him to mimic any number of
other female things such as having a "period" (being
ordered to use feminine hygiene products in creative
ways) Of course, there are many options in the clothing,
spa, beauty salon, and housework areas, and
opportunities in shopping and just chatting should not be
overlooked. "Assignments are mandatory!" :)
A Sissy is a male who likes the Feminine, but not
necessarily to be female. "Sissy" is all about attitude and
appreciation, and much less so about the particular thing
being done. Every human urinates, but sissy males will
enjoy do it sitting down, and pat dry. :)
As a Sissy, the search for things that please Mistress is
very important, even more so if those things can be
sexualized in some fashion. If i happen to discover that
She likes Pandora beads, i can then find a charm for Her
bracelet that will remind Her of my desire to be with her, a
little metal computer charm of what is the most frequent
connection between us. If She mentions Her love of
shoes, a little metal high heel or slipper charm might make
Her smile each time it catches Her eye. She will get one,
and i will also have one to act as a "worry bead" when we
cannot be together on phone or cam or textchat. A sissy
can be very clever at finding ways to "suss out" his
Mistress, or can simply beg for the information he seeks;
regardless, the key is to know the Mistress and meet her
needs. The intensity of connection deepens when what
the Mistress truly desires from Her Sissy and what the
Sissy can authentically provide overlap. What is often
thought of as "love" but may be better classified as
"devotion." Chivalry is not dead in the sissy world.
A final word about all things sissy: the tone is always
gentleness and respect. While this world is capable of
harshness, and the patriarchy may generally rule, in the
Sissy world it is always necessary to be kind, quiet, open,
and sincere. An angry upset sissy is in imminent danger
of becoming a non-sissy. The attitude is gratitude at
being permitted an escorted glimpse into the world of
women.
Thank you for the chance to share my innermost feelings.
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